I have been around the Manosphere for about 3 years now. In that time I have seen quite a few newcomers and their various reactions to the new information they are reading. It can be very confusing coming in because of some of the different vocabulary we use (much of it not quite in sync with the precise dictionary definitions) and because it is very often completely contrary to so much we have been taught. People react to this in various ways. Couple that with unknown intentions and being a newcomer can be very difficult.
The purpose of this post is for it to be a place for newcomers to ask their questions. If it goes anywhere, I will place it on the side bar for people to be able to ask any questions at any time. A couple of things to note, this guide may be a good place for you to start. It may answer your questions or prompt more. Also, please know that I do not moderate my comments. Given the size of this site I still have the luxury of this. It is important that you realize that your tone is very important here. Many people are going to respond to you in the same tone that you are asking your question. Not everyone who comments on these blogs is here to learn and if people believe that your intentions are to create havoc, you will be addressed in that manner. If I believe you have poor intentions, you will be ignored.
In short, if you truly want to learn, simply ask your question.