I want to add to this.  I want to break it down further to discuss, but really there’s nothing more I can say.  I’ll just put this snippet up to give you a taste.  But you really should go read the whole thing.

What I mean is, ‘men’ aren’t the problem, Rebecca. It’s you. You’re the one. You’re the common denominator. You’re to blame. There has been one person conspicuously involved in all of Rebecca’s romantic flops, and her name is Rebecca. Maybe you should take a look at her for a change.