Men should “Just Shut the Hell Up”

Here is a video, that is supposed to be funny, from the other side.  The idea is the same, rally people through humor.  Add to that, they try to use humor to deny what they are trying to push, “You are being so sensitive!  It was just a joke!”  Again, this all reminds me of Rollo’s Peak Hypergamy, only it goes so far beyond that now.  They will hide behind the humor for now, but not for much longer.  There are those who already say outright, with no humor to hide behind, what this woman is saying.

(H/T PJMedia)

Modern Educayshun


I would like to point something out.  It was said in the comments of the last video that the video is, Interesting, but it will not make me think a lot.

My response.  These videos are not meant to make you think a lot. Through humor, people will drop their egos enough to see the humor (because they want to laugh) and more truths are seen. They might not sink in deeply, but it plants a seed. They are also designed to show people that they are not alone. More and more people are noticing these trends. The videos backs up beliefs that people have been afraid to voice and shows them they are not alone. People who are not alone are braver and more likely to speak out as well. All of this helps to further spread the message.

Things like this are more important than people realize and have been used for hundreds of years, just like the political cartoons of old.

Pedestalization – What women want


And yet, inexplicably, she wants him.

I’ve had occasion to think more on this tonight because of this comment at Rollo’s from Anonymous Reader:

Women don’t want to be put on a pedestal, not really, not inside. Unless maybe it’s to give a man they like a chance to peek up their skirt. They want to be possessed by a man they are attracted to, not idolized by any man.

I would like to clarify something about this. To be perfectly clear women want to be pedestalized and not pedestalized. Clear as mud, right? Here’s the thing. With so much that is woman, we often want two conflicting things. In this case we want to be pedestalized from a place of Pride. We want to be admired, to have the power over and even own a man who would put us there. Only, there is no contentment in his place. There is no peace. Only pride and resentment.

There is another place, a deeper place of freedom and peace and it is in this place where we truly do not want to be pedestalized. We cannot respect a man who would put us above himself and we cannot truly love a man we do not respect. We will take the pedestalization as it is power but we would rather be with a man who is more powerful than ourselves.

What we really want is a man who has built his own pedestal. The higher the better and we want him to lift us up onto it by his own choice. This is the deeper want, the deeper desire. To be chosen.

Dignity . . . Long Dismissed

For no other reason than I love this picture.

It seems 4chan has once again very successfully trolled feminists.  This latest troll job has gotten women to take pictures urinating on themselves and then post them for all the world to see.  This is supposed to be in some sort of solidarity with women who soil themselves while raped (which is also a 4chan meme). Since we can no longer tell the difference between actual rape and what these women want us to think rape is, how is this supposed to help?

This is more evidence of the SJW/Feminist thought.  Ugly is beautiful.  Beautiful is Ugly.  Dignity is shameful and shame is pride.  On and on it continues.

Hilariously, 4Chan also began the free bleeding movement (also shown in the linked article).  It seems my hope of feminist taking it so far as to continue to show their ridiculous hand continues and they more successfully turn more women away themselves than anything any anti-feminist could write.

(H/T commenter Is This Thing On? at Rational Male)

Your Children Do Not Come First

There is a story I’ve been meaning to put down here for quite some time.  Rollo’s post today on the Red Pill Parent reminded me of it this morning (It’s a very good post.  Take the time to read it).

My husband told me this story years ago and it has always stuck with me.

When a man and a women marry, they begin the marriage by joining hands.  In many marriages today, when a child comes along, the husband and wife will break their circle by letting the child join in it.  Then another child comes and joins in the circle as well and so on and so forth.

As the children grow and leave the home, they leave the circle broken. It is not so easy for the husband and wife to simply join hands again.  It was a mistake for them to ever let go.  Instead, the man and wife never let go of one another.  Rather, when children come, they are put inside the circle the man and wife have created together.  A circle that is never broken.

Your husband and marriage come first.  Not only will your marriage be better off for it, contrary to popular belief, your children will be, as well.

Healthy Masculinity!

By now you’ve probably heard that the University of Tennessee is asking their students to use “gender neutral pronouns such as ‘ze'”. . . in order to create a more inclusive campus.”  There were a bunch of other recommendations as well that I don’t have the stomach to look up right now such as “xe”, “xir” and other ridiculousness (while googling an article for this post, the UT webpage has been removed and it looks like they have let this go).

Vanderbilt University is now joining the fun.  Only this one won’t be so easily mocked because it is far more mainstream (H/T – Alpha Game).

Vanderbilt University’s Women’s Center will be hosting a week-long event dedicated to lecturing men about what it means to have “healthy masculinity.”

The “Healthy Masculinities Week” is sponsored by Vanderbilt’s Margaret Cuninggim Women’s Center, which claims to be devoted to “Celebrating Women” while “Empowering All.”

The mission of the Women’s Center is to affirm a “space for all members of the Vanderbilt community that acknowledges and actively resists sexism, racism, homophobia, and all forms of oppression while advocating for positive social change.”

The “core values” of the Women’s Center includes the idea that, “progress toward gender equality calls all of us to be champions for change” while simultaneously claiming to “celebrate the unique differences among all persons and work to build community in diversity.”

“Healthy Masculinities Week” hopes to encourage men to “[e]xplore healthy masculinity through various lenses,” such as “American society, the gay and bisexual community, fraternities, and more.”

Allow me to translate – We desire to control the men because we are afraid of you.  We’re not really all that afraid you’re going to hurt us, but we know that if you start to think for yourselves, you will supplant us.  So, we will define masculinity for you.  What we propose won’t actually arose us or even attract us, but it will leave you waiting for us when, at around 30-35, we are ready to marry “A good man”.  So, because we know you want to sleep with us, we will tell you what we want you to be when we actually want you to impregnate us and provide for us.  You will listen because sex.  

That’s basically it in a nutshell.  To be sure, many of these women don’t consciously think what I’ve written out above.  It’s there, but they won’t allow themselves to think about it too much because it is still somewhat shameful to say aloud.  However, to be perfectly clear, due to peak hypergamy more and more feminists are willing to think in a far clearer manner about this and to put voice to it.  It’ll only continue to be more vocalized as it becomes more acceptable to admit it.

Women have been attempting to define masculinity, likely since the beginning.  In the last few decades we have succeeded.  Men and women are suffering because of it.  Women aren’t going to stop trying to tell you men what we think we want.  Hopefully it is obvious by now that we are terrible at this and you men must define it for yourselves and not fear doing so.  As a group, we will use this fear (and desire for sex) against you in one manner or another, consciously or not.

By the way, one of the sponsors of the event is the Office of LGBTQI Life. I wondered when the number pf letters would get longer.  It was only a matter of time.

And if anyone is thinking of Black Knighting anything like this in the future, will this Open Code of Conduct has you covered (H/T Vox Popoli).

Our open source community prioritizes marginalized people’s safety over privileged people’s comfort. We will not act on complaints regarding:

~‘Reverse’ -isms, including ‘reverse racism,’ ‘reverse sexism,’ and ‘cisphobia’

~Reasonable communication of boundaries, such as “leave me alone,” “go away,” or “I’m not discussing this with you”

~Refusal to explain or debate social justice concepts

~Communicating in a ‘tone’ you don’t find congenial

~Criticizing racist, sexist, cissexist, or otherwise oppressive behavior or assumptions

Thank goodness creativity is on our side because the SJW’s aren’t even bothering to try to hide their thought policing any more.

It’s in His Nature to be Masculine

I want to share a field report with you from RPW today.

I happened upon the red pill life back in January of this year. I was looking for ways to improve my new marriage by getting back to traditional values and was trying to research ways when a link popped up concerning red pill. Eventually I found my way here and became obsessed. My old ways were mostly easy to give up – or so I thought. I adopted the red pill woman mentality relatively easily. When I read The Surrendered Wife and tried to implement Laura’s ideas, I hit some road blocks. 

I would literally have to trust my husband with everything; our livelihood, multiple decisions about family and money, stuff I knew based on our two year relationship, he couldn’t do. He forgets literally everything I tell him, even if it’s multiple times. One weekend I had to work and the kids wore the same underwear two days in a row! I fell apart, came here to try and get my questions answered on how to fix my husband and make him an alpha – and had my ass torn apart and handed back to me. I almost gave up the whole red pill idea right then. But one poster in particular (I’ll always remember her!) said something that clicked and it as something to the effect of I was only fooling myself into thinking I had surrendered but by the way I told my story it was obvious to red pill women I had not. 

So I tried again. Things honestly couldn’t get worse for my husband and I unless he was to lose his job. We rent a place from his parents, drive cars that are over 10 years old and are financially quite poor and over burdened. So I thought, “what the hell? Things truly can’t get much worse” and I just let my husband have it all. Do you know what? I have never been more happy to be so completely wrong about something in my whole life!!!!!!

What a burden has been lifted off my shoulders to not handle the finances anymore! He’s stepped up, created a budget, he gives me a budget I can stick to and as long as I’m under it I know we have money. He goes after sales bonuses like a lion after prey because he now sees the money in our account directly – I haven’t looked at our bank account in months! Just recently my husband needed to replace his car and we had money saved because he had begun a car fund. He was talking up a real storm about a car I was worried would cost too much in upkeep and insurance and isn’t practical for our family – do you know he gave up on that car himself?! He asked me my opinion on the car and I was DYING to give it to him but instead I did as Mrs. Doyle instructed and replied “whatever you think.” He instead changed his mind and bought a 4 door sedan and actually came in under budget! And our insurance dropped $25 a month! The change has been incredible! 

The best part is that my husband noticed my changes and thanked me the other day. “I’ve never felt more in charge of my own life or family and I’ve never felt more like a man in any relationship.” That’s what he said to me. I’ll always be red pill and always be a surrendered wife. It truly does work.

One of the first things that is very noticeable about new women coming in and wanting to change their marriages is how they want to benefits of submitting, but don’t actually want to submit.  The idea of real submission is so terrifying that it is literally inconceivable.  They dress prettily, the cook, they clean, but when it comes to really letting go, to truly submitting to their man, they can’t do it and they can’t even admit they can’t do it.  What they want is to top from the bottom.  They need to maintain true control for fear of relinquishing.

I don’t say this to pick on these women (To a different degree I was there at one point, as well).  It’s all they know.  It’s all they’ve been taught, in most cases, and the fear is real.  But when they surrender and truly let go of their fear (or at least not let it rule them), blossoming occurs.  In the women. In the men, but most importantly, in the marriage.

The second thing I always notice in these progress field reports is that, when men are given the space to be masculine, they will be masculine.  It has been taught out of them, but it is a natural part of who they are.  Get out of the way and watch them be men.


SJWs Always Lie available at Amazon


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SJWs Always Lie is on sale at Amazon now.  The official announcement is tomorrow (the anniversary of GamerGate) but you can purchase it now.  Here is the blurb from Amazon:

Social Justice Warriors have plagued mankind for more than 150 years, but only in the last 30 years has their ideology become dominant in the West. Having invaded one institution of the cultural high ground after another, from corporations and churches to video games and government, there is nowhere that remains entirely free of their intolerant thought and speech policing. 

Because the SJW agenda of diversity, tolerance, inclusiveness, and equality flies in the face of both science and observable reality, SJWs relentlessly work to prevent normal people from thinking or speaking in any manner that will violate their ever-mutating Narrative. They police science, philosophy, technology, and even history in order to maintain the pretense that their agenda remains inevitable in a modern world that contradicts it on a daily basis. 

The book is named after the First Law of SJW: SJWs always lie. SJWS ALWAYS LIE is a useful guide to understanding, anticipating, and surviving SJW attacks from the perspective of a man who has not only survived, but thrived, after experiencing multiple attempts by Social Justice Warriors to disqualify, discredit, and disemploy him in the same manner they have successfully attacked Nobel Laureates, technology CEOs, broadcasters, sports commentators, school principals, and policemen. It analyzes well-known SJW attacks as well as the two most successful examples of resistance to the SJW Narrative, #GamerGate and Sad Puppies. 

Written by Vox Day, Supreme Dark Lord of the Evil Legion of Evil and three-time Hugo nominee who is described as the most hated man in science fiction by Black Gate and The Wall Street Journal, SJWS ALWAYS LIE is a powerful weapon in the cultural war against the thought police. 

For additional research, I recommend reading Vox’s latest posts on the Hugo Awards.  They are illuminating, especially the comments from the people who attended in person.  I’m not sure of the website this was taken from, but it was quoted here.  

I actually went to Sasquan this year. This had nothing to do with the current drama – it’s simply the first time WorldCon has been held in a location I could reasonably travel to, and I wanted to go. I won’t be going to another. I’m not employing hyperbole when I say that many of the people there made my skin crawl (and I go to Cons whenever I can, so this is not ‘those nerds are creepy’). I have never actually seen so many adults, many of them significantly older than me, so openly campaigning for attention for nothing at all like 14 year old girls on facebook, and the reactions to the various panels, and the Hugo announcements themselves, were downright infantile. I have been a liberal for as long as I have had a political identity, and I can’t make common cause with these people anymore. Our causes aren’t common. These smug self-congratulatory nitwits actually ARE thought police, and are reveling in it, and are GLORIFYING acting like children. I don’t understand how adults with their own agency are capable of doing this without any self-awareness, and actually thinking it makes them heroes.

This is the vast majority of your allies (or at least the most vocal and visible portion of them, but that may be giving too much benefit of doubt). They think acting more like children than actual children present at WorldCon is a good thing, so it’s literally an impossibility that they are actually going to employ anything as complex as 4GW tactics to combat their enemies. They are emotional reactionaries focusing on one short-term goal at a time. They may have the determination to fight for a long time (after all, they are combatting evil and oppression!), but they also ensure that their enemies will never lack for motivation to oppose them either. In the long run, this is good for the Rebel Alliance, but is probably a loss for sanity.

Very mild surprise was all I could muster.